See, I dont put my ears in my cap, I think its too uncomfortable but it looks funny when they are sticking out so when i'm out of the water I put my cap over my ears but when I am about to start I pull my ears out. and when I have my ears in I can't keep my goggles on comfortably.
yes I straighten my hair almost everyday, sometimes when i'm being lazy I don't but i've always done it so its not too bad anymore, yes I do wash it usually everyday, because when i sweat it goes gross too. and as for not completely killing my hair I have some pretty good products that help A LOT.
Dont worry about feeling like a dork, everyone else is self consious about caps and suits and everything else that no one really pays attention to how anyone else looks. So dont feel silly and everyone is usually more than willing to give tips while you are there!!!
"We are what we want to be, We are free to have it all, Its In OURSELVES to Rise or Fall. " -Aida