Xeney, don't lose hope!!! It's harder for some than others (read me )- if it's not too much of a financial burden, do try some of the other styles for clipping like Look or Speedplay or even Eggbeaters. Sometimes that different style of clipping can make all the difference in your feeling of confidence (and, Lance knows, confidence is 95% of the battle). I didn't get along with SPD at all and had to switch to Eggbeater Candy - with a tiny bit of wax on the "eggbeater" part of the pedal, I could clip in much easier. It wasn't as much a precision operation like SPD was.