Just showing up and meeting them is going to show them that you are interested in your child's education. You would be surprised how many parents don't even appear at parent teacher conferences. Then ask THEM what you can do, not us. They probably have specific ideas, or will think about it. I know I love it when parents become involved!

Meet with the teachers and quit worrying for now. You may be surprised at how positive you feel after meeting with them. Most teachers are there because they love their job, and if they are taking the time to meet with you, chances are they also want what is best for your child. I had several frustrated parents this summer because our schedule was going to make their children choose between band and Alg. I. (small school) They worried all summer, and finally at the end of the summer, they talked to me about it. I had no idea it was a problem, so I told them I would just split my 7th hour and have half of the room be Geometry and half Algebra. Yeah, it's a footrace, and a lot of extra work, but it's working and the kids didn't have to choose. They spent the summer frustrated when they should have just approached ME first.

Take a deep breath, meet with the teachers, and then report back! I hope it turns out for you.