wow, I knew brain -storming will help... thank you all

Cake topper is great idea, but the one I saw with postage costs over 50$ it's too expensive for my taste, we we can buy normal one for 2$ , if you have some link about other cheaper please sent... Beany, you cake was great

The problem with a budget is that we don't have one... In Croatia is the custom for the guests to give money instead of gift (we don't have the gift book thing cause people that come are from all over Croatia and Europe and they don't have the time to go to that specific one shop) So we'll earn some money on the wedding, but we don't know exactly how much. If we have some money left after paying all the bills we'll go to honeymoon in Africa, and it not we'll go somewhere in Croatia. But of course, I don't wanna spend all money just on the wedding no mater how nice will it will look.

...I have to go to work now, so I don't have the time comment all, but please continue with your suggestions.