THE WEDDING SHOULD BE A REFLECTION OF YOU!!!! - Yes I felt the need to shout that.
Too many times we do things for others. But the wedding is about YOU! I can't tell you how many times I've seen brides plan a wedding that everyone ELSE likes, but they are just ho hum about it. SILLY! Weddings are expensive enough! Do what YOU like!!!

There were some great suggestions. I'll have to ponder it some more to see if I can think of any more for ya.
I'm an "amatuer" wedding planner. I LOVE to do it, so I have done it for friends and family for years. They all tell me I should do it for a living, but I don't think I want to deal with the bridezillas of the world. I'd rather do it for people who appreciate it.
Soooo.... hmmmm... give me a day or so..