I have done the married thing and am single right now. I have to say that I never,ever rode as a married. He wanted me home when he was home. I am now riding in rides and just bought a road bike(my very first one). All that to say this, if you have a SO or DH who supports and encourages your cycling then be sure and let them know you appreciate their support and encouragement especially if they are not riders. I found out life is too short to be controlled by someone who doesn't support you and the things you like. It is also too short to pass up an opportunity to tell the ones you love that you appreciate them.