Too much padding also makes me numb. Like Lisa, I ride on unpadded Brooks saddles. But mine have SPRINGS under them. (Brooks B67)

At least now you know that too much padding is uncomfortable for you. Go back to the saddle you had before, and keep searching. You are lucky in that you have a decent saddle to use as you continue hunting down the best fit.

You say you think you could be more comfortable. What do you want to be more comfortable? What's your least favorite thing about your current saddle?

(BTW, don't get hung up on women's vs men's saddles. Whatever works for you is the best, regardless of label!)