crs1210...yeah, I was not jumping up and down with joy impressed at the guy's comments about "toughen up". I have heard that to an extent on the adjustment overall, but the bottom line point to the guy was that, well...my bottom was not in line on my saddle correctly! If it were, and it was my sitz bones that were getting the toughen up, I could just develop softball size calase on my rear end and maybe move towards a working J-Lo bootie, that would be fine, but on the womanhood, notta! I just think within his fitting experience he had maybe done the tricks he knew how to and whelp, that was it, end of story, sorry Charlie. I still don't know all that there is to fix the problem, but at least I know from reading, and things on this site too, that "toughen up and just keep bleeding lady" is not the only choice in the world, much less the best viable advice. So, I'll keep working. Thx for the thoughts on wash & fit.