Cycling and your relationship.

[teigyr]

But back in the day when I was dating I found it difficult not to have an active lifestyle in common.

Lots of comments like "You do what? You ride how far? You're doing what next weekend?" and the classic "You spend that much on what? ".

That's exactly it. I never expected anyone to do my activities as much as I was doing them but I did want someone who could keep up with me in general. DH did take up cycling but before that he hiked and kayaked so he was in decent shape. Imagine being active and being with someone who gets winded going for a walk?!