For what it's worth, not all road bikes are for racing. Try asking the shop for a touring bike. I seem to recall seeing some cyclocross frames built with drop bars too. Some commuter bikes also have drop bars. Tell them that you want to try a variety of frame geometries and drop bars. Be specific about your distance goals and speed goals.

Most shops think "road bike" means "racing bike". And well... not true. Lots of people ride on roads and don't race.