We've always had the dog and cat combos, so even an overnight away requires a stop in from a friend, but we always prefer a pet/house sitter. I try to make friends with 20-30 somethings who find themselves living with mom and dad again, and could use a break - of course, they have to love dogs and cats!

Crazy as it sounds, I always tell them how many sleeps we'll be gone and who will take care of them; and that they need to listen to that person and be good, just like kids. Yes, reunions are still wild, but not as crazy or long as you're talking about!

I did read in a really fabulous book once, that the if we set aside 5 minutes when we first get home to play and interact with our pets, then they will be better behaved for the rest of the day.....

Good luck with your little monkey cat!

Hugs and butterflies,
~T~