Ditto on my husband. I can't stand it when women sit around and complain about men in general. How would we like it if men were sitting around saying " All women are..." My husband spends more than me on cycling stuff and always buys me things when he is ordering on line, without me knowing. We have a "bike shop" in our basement and he does all the mechanics. Mostly this started when my son was racing, and it saved us tons of $. But now, he really enjoys it and says he will do this when he retires. I am a mechanical dunce, so it's a good thing.
My sons are 20 and 22 and I know they benefited from seeing equality in action as they were growing up. Last year my older son had his first real relationship and he told me that we were "good role models," especially after all of the couples we were friends with when he was little recently divorced.