It sounds like you have a phenomenal support system! And I'm glad you didn't listen to the snobby cyclist who said you couldn't have an expensive bike. Every time I go into my LBS, I expect the guys to be snobby and look down on me and my recreational riding (these guys all race Cat 1/2!) but anytime my husband mentions our "little 40 mile" ride, their eyes light up and they comment on how that's not a "little" ride. That kind of support makes a huge difference!

Kudos to Mr. Silver for his support! And Kudos to you for getting back on the bike! I'm sure that took a lot of courage and determination.