I second (or third) the suggestion that you try some spinning classes. When we climb out of the saddle in class, we're encourage to keep our butt over the saddle with the weight of our body mostly in our legs. You might trying the same thing when you're on the road. I also agree that you might want to check the fit of your bike. Once you get into the habit of unclipping, it really shouldn't be that hard to stop and/or dismount. Is the tension on your pedals too high? As long as you get off safely, it doesn't have to be the most graceful thing in the world......
Otherwise, just keep riding. The motor skills used for handling a road bike in any number of positions and situations comes with practice. As you keep riding, most of it will just start to feel intuitive. When I started riding last year, I remember feeling so frustrated that something that seemed so easy as a kid took so much effort and concentration as an adult. I remember going on a ride with my then boyfriend. I was staying well behind his wheel and he finally asked if I knew what drafting was. I did but explained that my mind was focused on way too much as it was to ride that closely to his wheel. For his safety and mine, I had bigger fish to fry at that point.
As the months wore on though, I started to feel much more comfortable on my bike and now it almost feels like an extension of my body. So while I understand that you feel like you need certain skills now, I would encourage you to be patient with yourself. Remember, too, that muscle strength and aerobic capacity are part of the equation in all of this. Standing to climb, especially if the hill virtually requires you to get out of the saddle, takes a fair amount of power and it can be harder on your legs and lungs (at least it is for me) than seated climbing. While I've working on my form for standing climbs this year, I've worked even harder on powering over tough climbs from my seat. I only get up if I really, really have to. Again, it all just takes some practice.....
Good luck,
Kate
Last edited by indysteel; 06-14-2007 at 06:42 AM.
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