Quote Originally Posted by AutumnBreez
Oh, and no matter what the tip length...You can only insert it as far as you pinched fingers will allow so I guess I should not be too overly concerned about not getting it out once inserted...right? oh bloody hell its stuck! lol
A lot of women find both cups most comfortable if they cut the entire stem off. They just use their PC muscles (Kegel exercises, anyone?) to push the thing down to where they can grip the ridged bottom of the actual cup. Anyway, just yanking straight down on the stem causes some unpleasant suction problems, so a combination of the two techniques is necessary!

The stem of my Diva doesn't bother me if I shove it off to one side, so I left the whole thing.