Ummm lots of great imput! Like you, I am generally the same size as you. With that said, although I own several nice road bikes, I still find my custom Ti bike the most comfortable. If you are interested in Ti, have you thought about Lynskey? These are the people that used to own LItespeed in the 90's... and sold the company. They make awesome frames, with custom sizing and paint schemes as well... I have to admit that my next frame will be from them... Dear Santa, HA!

Have fun looking!