I am now on my third style of pedals.

I started with a MTB pedal. Easy in, hard out for me.

Then, I went with a Shimano Ultegra pedal. Less float, felt good riding. I found them to be a pain to get in, the theory behind the pedal rotating to allow for a simple toe in first then clip didn't work for me. I found I had to look at the pedal to get in. Not ideal plus I didn't find them too easy to get out of. I always felt I couldn't get out quickly. Plus, it was hard to pedal unless clipped in.

Now, I have Speedplay Zeros. Much happier. It is hard to get in, but can pedal easily if not clipped fully- great when crossing a busy road that I can ride across and not worry about clipping until I am safely across. Much easier release for me. I feel so much more comfortable clipping in and out.

So, try and try some more. Thankfully, my LBS has a happiness guarantee. I had the shimano pedals for 3 months and they would have given me a refund (in full, no restocking) but DH uses them and we kept them as a spare.