How frightening this must be for you! However, I must point out, it would be hard for him to video you as there are sooo many of us. He'd also have to get a route sheet and I'm not sure he can just get one by asking.

Yes, ride with someone- this won't be hard as there are riders of all abilities on this ride.

I think I'd also be worried about when you get done as well. That would to me be another time when you are tired and vulnerable. You should have our cell numbers (another reason to come to the pre dinner) and we should have yours so we can keep in contact.

One more point in your favor- you can't just walk into the starting area. You have to have ID and a green card in your hand.