Cinderella rider concerned about ex

[Trek420]

I am soooooo sorry you're going through this.

But do come out for the ride. Just my $0.02 you can't give in to fear, that's what he wants and then he wins. The jerk needs to move on, get a life, and that needs to be lived out in a cell if he's stalking you.

I imagine there are situations for each of us where we don't honestly know what we're capable of doing, defending a loved one comes to mind. But there are no adjectives to "violent person" as in "He isn't really a violent person" it's like "sort of pregnant".

He's violating your personal space, privacy, please protect yourself. He needs to be gone.

Please come to the pre-ride Cindy dinner that way you'd know a bunch of us and we'll know you.

It's not like I'm offering body guard services <vbg> but I juuuuust happen to have a 2nd degree black belt in Aikido. Ride with Spazz and me, seriously, or watch for us.

That way if I cant throw him into next Sunday Spazz will dazzle him with her Zebra striped bike till the rest of TE arrives to pelt him with cookies, so there.

OK, since I'm slow it'll be the other way around, pelted with cookies till I arrive.

Come ride with us.