Thanks all!

I've spoken with Renalda (Renalta?) from TE and she actually tried the jerseys on (she's about my size) and made lots of comparisons for me with Sugoi jerseys. The ones I want are currently on backorder but hopefully they'll come in time for the wedding.

I've ended up ordering a small both for me and my fiancé. I'm sure they'll fit. And if they're a bit too small, so what, we'll just be wearing them for a few rides during our wedding and honeymoon!

Those TE Ladies - in the store and in the forum - are just WONDERFUL.