I agree with everyone else!
ex. right now my bike looks really silly because I have a 60mm salsa mtb stem on it(it is a roadbike).
But... my frame is to big for me and I am having major shoulder issues from being so streched out. So low and behold- until I can get a new frame, the next best thing was done.

A lot of people make comments because it looks silly- but I don't care because I feel better!!

So go with how you feel, not with what others say- they aren't in your shoes