Thank-you for all the well wishes and prayers. We are hoping she will have surgery today- though I haven't heard anything yet so that may mean tomorrow!
RM don't delay! I guess if I will have learned anything from this it will be to keep asking questions until I am satisfied with the answer.
I do believe we must take responsibility for our own health, that being said my sis is a non-smoker/non-drinker/exerciser who didn't eat crap.
What she did have was a mystery abdominal pain that would come and go- stay away for many months just to return to make her sick( crampy) but no missed day at work or anything.
She was told it "was in her head", that she had some parasite that "everyone has but you are just more sensitive".
I know I will listen to my body more closely now and get answers when needed.
Thanks again everyone