I'm sure I'm going to piss off some folks, but there seems to be a trend of tolerating rudeness and dangerous behavior. We then go complain to others which does nothing to improve the situation. Why? I was taught not to rock the boat but when it comes to safety or health? No way.

So, figure out a way to politely explain to iPod wearers or ER staff or whomever why their behavior is unacceptable in the situation. Talk to them at the time when you have the ability to make the change.

Peer pressure can cause one to stay silent, but I bet if you polled the group everyone would say they were waiting for someone else to say something. So get a backbone and take care of yourself at the moment. Otherwise, you won't grow old and cranky like me.

Grog - I know someone who rips headphones off anyone who shows up for group rides. I think I'd go for one verbal request and then go for the rip and shred method. I'm with you on this one.