Han grrl posted some good info... both about technique and riding with the SO. I quit riding with my hubby until I was good enough not have to listen to his "help".

other ideas: Women's bike clubs, camps and rides. Depending on where you are there are lots of choices

One last techinque comment.. keep your butt OFF that seat!! If you can learn to ride in a neutral position, and be dynamic (fluid) not static ( still) it will help immensely. For more info, the books or videos by Ned Overend (Mountain Bike Like A Champion) are excellent.

Dang too bad team Smack took down that hilarious site about testosterone poisoned males mountain biking... sounds like it would have been perfect to show your hubby.

Irulan