Nicole, the next time we ride together you should try my bike.
What size is your bike?
My bike shop offers "guaranteed fit" on the bike they sell. They'll swap out the stem repeatedly until I'm comfortable; I wonder if they'll do the bars, too?
I'd rather be swimming...biking...running...and eating cheesecake...
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2008 Cervelo P2C Tri bike
2011 Trek Madone 5.5/Cobb V-Flow Max 2007 Jamis Coda/Terry Liberator
2011 Trek Mamba 29er