Good ride w/short rant!

[Trekhawk]

He didn't say anything. Just kind of looked at me funny. My husband said, "Nature break Veronica."

I do wish guys would be more discreet about it.

V.

LOL V you crack me up. On the Party Pardee ride I saw a bike by the side of the road near a drop off and thought oh my where is the rider so I slow down and strain to see down the drop off to make sure the rider is not hurt and yep stupid me of course he is just peeing. I was so happy he didn't see me peering over the edge at him.

I always ask people that are stopped if they need anything. I sure as hell would like someone to stop for me if I needed help. I don't see many cyclists around my place but the few times I have (always blokes) they have said supportive stuff. I dont take it as an insult I just think they really are impressed that some women dont freak about doing stuff on their own.

[Cindyloo]

Most of the time when I am riding (particularly in warm weather) my face turns really red . I'm usually doing quite fine, but look like my head is going to pop (no high blood pressure). People will ask if I'm OK and I just explain that my face just turns red, but that I'm fine. It does get old but now I just expect it. Shortly after I stop riding my face quickly turns to its normal color !

Just saying I know kind of what you are going through. I will usually ask women if they are stopped and look like they have mechanical trouble but I'm skeered to stop and ask men particularly if I am solo (no offense Mr. Silver!).

[trekin']

Bikerhen, I can chuckle about this now...but it's the opposite of your story...

A couple of years ago I was riding through a neighborhood on my way to my daily loop when I slipped on some sand and hit a car. I was OK (the poor woman I hit was scared to death!), but was pretty badly scraped. After I convinced her I wasn't going to die or sue her, she left. I called my DH because I was starting to bleed and I didn't want to ride the 2 miles home if I didn't have to. As I waited on the corner, bloody and banged up, no less than 3 women and 2 men walked by. Not one of them asked if I was OK or even said hello!

I still wonder if I was 25, instead of 50, 120 lbs. instead of 165 lbs., blonde hair instead of gray, would someone have stopped and asked me if I needed help? Of course, these people were not bikers, so that must explain it!

[tprevost]

Seems like the subject of the rant has pretty much been covered....

just wanted to say that I'm really glad you had such a great ride BikerHen!!!! I love it when things come together and it sure sounds like it was your day

AND, when are you coming back to Cali for another visit???

[bikerHen]

Gee, I go for a bike ride and then a meeting and come back to all this. Wow! Thanks for all the input. I agree with what was said about checking on someone stopped by the side of the road. What got me about the gal that stopped was that she actually stop! Her attitude was like I WAS lying in the road taking my last breath.

Anyway, I was nice and polite to every call I got and I did try a little conversation with my well wishers on the hills, but they were all going too fast.

I just want to be a person riding a bike like everyone else! I'm sure no harm was intended yesterday. But as many of you have said, you need to choose your words wisely . . . and I guess that's the point I wanted to make.

And I guess I'm a little touchy right now. Spring is in the air and all the idiots who like to yell at bikers are out in full force. I've gotten more than my fair share of them the last couple of weeks. I almost caught one at a stop light. That would have been sweet revenge! bikerHen