I know sometimes my BF says something that upsets me, and I in turn push EVERY button he has! I don't blame him for not wanting to talk to me. Had I not responded the way I did, he wouldn't have either. We have nice calmfights too, so I know he's really a good person. But when I end the conversation with "I don't want to talk to you anymore" who can blame him for taking me seriously? I know I need help, and I'm trying really hard, but when the PMS monster comes to town, it's 100 times worse!