
Originally Posted by
xeney
Heh. The Dog Whisperer cracks me up, because it is always really obvious when they are setting up the worst possible behavior for him to come in and magically fix. And I bet they just don't air the segments where he fails.
Dogs aren't computers. Training is important, control is crucial, but the idea that if a dog still has a behavioral problem, that automatically means that the owner just hasn't worked hard enough to find the magical solution ... to me, that sounds like a fantasy land, and I would never trust a trainer who made a claim like that. Particularly not in regard to a fear issue.
We took one of our dogs to one of the top behaviorists in the country because her fear problems were so bad when she was a puppy, and she told us straight up: you can make this dog safe, you make her a dog you can live with, but you can't make her perfect. Let go of that idea, because she is always going to be a fearful dog. Dog fears are almost as complex as human fears, and in some ways they are harder to treat because a dog can't take an intellectual approach to her fears.
(But none of my dogs are even slightly afraid of or even interested in bicycles. In our house that would be like fearing the coffee table. Bicycle pumps, on the other hand ... just because of that one time when my husband made a tire explode. That was a couple of years ago but they still try to hide behind me whenever he gets out the floor pump or takes a wheel off a bike.)
I saw him work with a very aggressive dog that they had to put a muzzle on - that dog was nuts. If he was ever going to quit on a dog it would have been that one! That dog would have torn into him if he had a chance. I agree that sometimes they play up the dogs aggressiveness a bit but I really do think he knows dogs. Dogs that are fearful are really tough. My dog gets scared when I take the top off of a tube of Chapstick.
If I make a strange sound with my mouth, like a click or pop, the dog comes unglued. Why would those things bother him. I can't seem to figure out how to get him over all his fears but I'm still trying. But if his fear caused him to lunge after other people or dogs I definately would keep on trying to resolve it.
We have a lot of ducks that hang out around the trail by the river. I'm always amazed when they just sit there and let you work your way through them. I always expect a bunch of wing flapping and feathers flying. But they are just as calm as can be. I guess because they are used to lots of people being around. It's still weird though.
As we must account for every idle word, so must we account for every idle silence." ~Benjamin Franklin