1) We don't ride with only the two of us on open roads. I know he doesn't want to go my speed and I don't want to go his.

2) If it's only us riding, we go on a bike path and he's welcome to go ahead. I ride my own ride. If he wants to see me, he can slow down or wait along the path, or lap me.

3) If we go on a group ride he rides is ride, I ride mine. We see each other at the start and end and find buddies who are our speed to ride with.

4) If we ride together at a bike rally, he's welcome to speed off...we can meet at the rest stops.