I think the military can be a place for losers, saw my share of those since I worked on the base. But it can be a chance to learn a lot about yourself, about other people, and hopefully some useful skill as well. Thom never went back to school. He took some classes at the community college and then we bought a house. Career wise, it hasn't hurt him. I'm sure at the time his parents were less than thrilled. He was in for six years. I'm sure your son will find his own way.

V.