after waiting yet another day for "I'll check in a little while" to happen
I wrote:
"if the frame ever arrives, please send me a picture because i'm beginning to doubt it's existence."

I was wrong. I keep trying to call to apologize, and he is busy.

I am sure the bike is worth it; but there's just so much being yelled at that I can take (I'm sensitive) and so I am going to call this guy and get yelled at if he ever comes to the phone.

Thanks guys.