Have a gone too far?

[emily_in_nc]

I need to check into the Making Memories site. My wedding dress was not a "real" wedding dress but a white prom dress that my mom modified somewhat. It is pretty, but it's just made of a synthetic nylon/poly fabric w/lace, not an expensive, fine dress like most of you have. I think it cost only about $125 originally, but Mom dolled it up, adding some things to it, and it was perfect for my small, simple, morning, rose garden wedding at the age of 24. I wonder if they will take it or if they only want the very expensive satin wedding gowns that most women wear. It's hanging in a bag in the closet, and I don't have any children. I hate for it just to gather dust. It might have some good luck associated with it as I've been married nearly 22 years now!

If they won't take it, I'll probably just donate to a local charity.

Emily

[mimitabby]

they'll take it! Someone might think it's perfect!

[mimitabby]

I was married when I was 19, during the ten minutes or so when I was "thin" and pretty. The dress was made by my grandmother and she used antique lace (100 years old, she claimed) and antique ivory buttons and ivory colored satin (since I'd been a naughty girl and "had" to get married I was only entitled to "off-white"...) with a victorian neckline. It was beautiful and unique and my mother had it cleaned and put in an archival storage thingie. It then spent twenty years taking up too much space in the front hall closet. My children piled junk on top of it, ripped the bag and the 100 year old lace by throwing their skates and baseball bats on top of it. It is pathetic and bedraggled and a size I could never hope to fit into again even if my life depended on it. I feel only guilt every time I look at it. I wish I'd sold it way back when and let it go to a better home...

wow, offwhite because you weren't a virgin! people still do that!!!
outrageous! I wore a red long skirt and a white blouse because i wanted to!
and right, both pieces were polyester, who'd want that now?!?

[Aggie_Ama]

I am glad people here don't think I am crazy! I don't feel bad about selling my gown. It is gorgeous and I plan on selling it at 1/3 of its new price. We were on a fairly modest budget and the only reason I got this dress was my Pawpaw bought it for me. Sadly, he died before my wedding. I hope someone else can purchase it for a good price (the dress is still available at full cost in many shops) and have a beautiful day.

I think Pawpaw would get a kick out of me riding all the time. He would think I was crazy, but love the stories. So in my mind his purchase will continue to bring me joy if I sell it and get bike stuff.

On the idea of maybe having a daughter, that is probably a silly reason to keep it. I hope she won't be short and squatty like I was when we got married. I was 5'2" and 170. My husband is 6'2" and thin as a rail. I imagine a daughter will at least be taller than me! And I hope if we have a kid to have a boy! Plus I would have never worn my mother's gown, it was so dated.

[mimitabby]

Amanda; height genetics:

with a short mom and a tall dad you could get tall girls, tall boys, short girls, short boys and lots of blends in the middle!

GOOD LUCK, it's a crap shoot!

[Aggie_Ama]

Amanda; height genetics:

with a short mom and a tall dad you could get tall girls, tall boys, short girls, short boys and lots of blends in the middle!

GOOD LUCK, it's a crap shoot!

My college roommate is a doctor and explained this to me as well. I choose to ignore it. I am the shortest adult member of both of our families, I hope to stay that way. Being so short can be a pain.

Even if a hypothetical daughter is short, the dress will still be dated. And I forgot to mention 1/5 of our budget was a photographer. She ended up wiht 650+ shots, I have plenty to remember the dress.

[Aint Doody]

When my wedding dress was about 10 years old, I gave it to my sister who cut it up and used it in clothing for her daughters. She was really into smocking and lace and stuff at the time.

[lauraelmore1033]

wow, offwhite because you weren't a virgin! people still do that!!!
outrageous! I wore a red long skirt and a white blouse because i wanted to!
and right, both pieces were polyester, who'd want that now?!?

well, they did in small-town Indiana when I was growing up. It was actually my brothers who insisted I shouldn't wear white, which is funny since one of them shacked up with his girlfriend before marrying her and the other got his girlfriend pregnant (and SHE wore a dress so white it was positively fluorescent!).

[crazybikinchic]

I am coming up on my 10 year anniversary. I have been considering selling my gown. I actually bought it at a resale shop, so I only paid about $350 for it, but it is hanging in my mother's closet taking up space. I do not have a daughter to pass it on to and even if I did, she would deserve her own gown with her own personallity.

[Pedal Wench]

I just heard about the Making Memories site. So, when my parent's get back into town, the gown from my first is going there - it's been hanging in their house for 19 years.
I took great pleasure in throwing my second wedding dress in the trash (it was just a white sundress, but it still felt great - wouldn't want to pass on the bad karma!)

[Offthegrid]

My mom's wedding gown was a mini skirt!! Apparently that was the rage. I wore the dress for Halloween in the third grade. How pathetically sad is that.

[Duck on Wheels]

Amanda; height genetics:

with a short mom and a tall dad you could get tall girls, tall boys, short girls, short boys and lots of blends in the middle!

GOOD LUCK, it's a crap shoot!

Yep. Dad was 5'11" (before prostate cancer made swiss cheese out of his bones), Mom was and still is about 5'2". Older bro' is, I think 5'6" (generously estimated), I'm the tall one at 5'9" and Trek420 is (as she says) the scale model -- Mom's height. Randomly assorted heights according to the roll of the DNA dice. But put us in identical wigs and we could almost look like triplets otherwise.

[LadyinWhite]

Hi everyone, I'm T - totally new to TE forums. I didn't know it existed til today and I'm genuinely psyched to find it. I just wanted to post that I love this thread and while I haven't sold my wedding gown yet (it's 22 years old) I'm sitting here taking a mental inventory of all my "stuff" thinking, hmmm.. what can I sell so I can buy more bike stuff. This after I just picked up two new shebeest cycloskorts today!! LOL

[Trekhawk]

Interesting theme here.
Stuff. We love our stuff. but we only have so much room... and finances.
When we die we leave it all behind, so why wait, maybe someone else can use it?
Stuff like dresses that no one will wear..> I have the bed covers that my great grandmother made for my grandmother's wedding. What the heck can I do with it? she treasured it all her life and gave it to me. It's a sheet and a long thing that covers the pillows. We've never used it. It just takes up space. So get rid of that dress BEFORE it passes to your children who will not care about it but feel guilty because it was yourss...

Guitars. Ah, if you want to play guitar again, Denise, there are lovely new guitars on the market! sell those two while they are still in nice condition!

extra bikes? I want to sell one of mine one of these days too!

Oooh Mimi did you know that antique linen costs a fortune if its in good condition. I actually collect antique linen (nothing like sleeping on beautiful linen sheets in summer). If you really dont want to keep it check out some antique linen dealers and you might get yourself a nice little bundle of dollars to spend on your bike.

[mimitabby]

Oooh Mimi did you know that antique linen costs a fortune if its in good condition. I actually collect antique linen (nothing like sleeping on beautiful linen sheets in summer). If you really dont want to keep it check out some antique linen dealers and you might get yourself a nice little bundle of dollars to spend on your bike.

antique linen DEALERS? there's such a thing?