A night by myself! Yes!!(shhhh)

[Mr. Bloom]

I ment good friend. a big guy buddy!

Good clarification...I was thinkin' what would happen if I said "Silver, there's the really great woman I work with that I'm going backpacking with...what do ya' think?"

I would HOPE that conversation wouldn't go well

[Triskeliongirl]

I ment good friend. a big guy buddy!

Thanks for the clarification! I just assumed you guys had an open marriage, but didn't say anything cuz its not for me to judge what works for other people.........

[KnottedYet]

I was thinking the same thing.

[mimitabby]

I meant good friend. a big guy buddy!

we have to be careful with our acronyms here! with some, I just figure it's me not keeping up, but with others, that are the same as others, like GF!!!!!


thanks for straightening us all out (big sigh of relief)

[BleeckerSt_Girl]

I was thinking the same thing.

Yeah me too...was keeping my mouth shut about your husband going camping with a girlfriend.

[kelownagirl]

Guess I'm not very good at keeping my mouth shut....

[hellosunshine]

when i was married my hubbie would disappear every weekend,bliss!id indulge in a 3 min sob,play some really girlie ABBA,sing,eat beans on toast,neglect the washing up,watch utter trash on the tv,and savour each of the 48hrs of being totally ME.Oddly now im single i dont think i really do any of these things

[lph]

Yeah me too...was keeping my mouth shut about your husband going camping with a girlfriend.

Well, I'm curious, because my bf/dh/so (together for 14 yrs, co-habited for 13, have a son, not married, so what do I call him?...) has both male and female friends that he goes on skiing and climbing trips with: can you call a guys female friend a girlfriend, like I call my female friends girlfriends?

Don't get me wrong: I'd wouldn't be thrilled if he wanted to go on an overnight trip with *only* this (very attractive, funny and smart...) female friend, but he does go climbing with her afternoons, and I'm fine with that I do the same, have both male and female friends but I wouldn't go on an overnight trip with just a male friend without discussing it at home. I do for fieldwork trips though.

I'm on a tangent here.

[Brandi]

I tried to go back and edit my first post there but could not.
I totally trust my hubby and if he wanted to go back packing let's say with my best girlfriend I would trust them. But at the same time I don't think so! One of you said something about they thought I had an open relationship and it was not thier place to say anything.That was very funny!Thanks for the laugh!
I do not share my man with no other women. Nope not ever gonna happen, besides I am the only women he needs or wants. As far as I know. (lol)
I will watch what I write! Sorry for all the hub bub! Oh no how many have read the first post without reading more. And now think i am in some wierd perverted relationship? No offense to anyone who is perverted!
I hang with guys too. But the two guys I am aloud to go out with without my dh are both gay! But now can he go out with them? Hmmmmmm? Can he go back packing with them? Interesting. I trust him, I don't know about them? They always say how cute my dh is. Nope don't think i would let him.
Now If I went back packing with a gay girlfriend he would not let that happen unless he was there. Yea he is a bit of a perv!
Sorry if this offends anyone!

[Mr. Bloom]

can you call a guys female friend a girlfriend, like I call my female friends girlfriends?

You've found a need for new definitions:
ff: Female Friend (which is a non-SO GF)
mf: Male Friend (which is a non-SO BF)

Of course, now that I'm thinking of it:

DDBF: Darling Daughter's Boy Friend
which should not be confused with:

DDMF: Darling Daughter's non-BoyFriend Male Friend

The possibilities are limitless.

Mr.Silver hands the controls back to the pilot and apologizes for the hijack.


Brandi: You're Cool and a Good Sport I think it sounds like you and hubby have a wonderful relationship and I appreciate you letting us have a little fun with your post

[Brandi]

You've found a need for new definitions:
ff: Female Friend (which is a non-SO GF)
mf: Male Friend (which is a non-SO BF)

Of course, now that I'm thinking of it:

DDBF: Darling Daughter's Boy Friend
which should not be confused with:

DDMF: Darling Daughter's non-BoyFriend Male Friend

The possibilities are limitless.

Mr.Silver hands the controls back to the pilot and apologizes for the hijack.


Brandi: You're Cool and a Good Sport I think it sounds like you and hubby have a wonderful relationship and I appreciate you letting us have a little fun with your post

You guys really make me giggle! Thank you for your wit!

[hellosunshine]

then there is LAT living apart together



im ashamed to say ive only just discovered what lol meant!!!!!!!



so stuck in a time warp,eek