Ditto most of what SheFly said- I'm so glad she posted so I don't feel alone!
[rant on]

Vacuuming - Hub
Laundry (incl folding & putting away) - Hub
Cleaning bathrooms - Hub
Emptying kitty litter - Hub
Feeding dogs -Hub
Tidying and dusting - Hub
Paying bills/managing household finance - SheFly& dH
Car maintenance (taking cars for inspection, regular maintenance) - Hub
Grocery shopping - Hub
Loadin/unloading dishwasher - Hub
Making moring coffee, refilling coffee cups - Hub
Knowing where EVERYTHING is, including DH's stuff - Hub ( Well alot gets lost)
Cooking - Hub
Walking dogs- Hub
Lawn care - hired out....
Bike maintenance -Please- only one cyclist lives here.
Paying for 'domestic assistance'- when we can find someone to work -dH
Driving HIS mom around to do errands- Hub
[rant off]

I am also an enabler. It's defintely not 50/50 at our house, and some days I'm bitter about that.