I've installed kickstands on hundreds of bikes. In the 70s, everyone wanted one. This is one of those fads that runs in cycles. Maybe in another 10 years everyone will want one again. They do have to be of the proper length or you can get a bike that tips over very easily (some are cut to length with a hacksaw). The only part of kickstands I couldn't stand was people riding with them misaligned, so that every time the pedals went around, the crank hit the kickstand with a loud "chunk". Personally, I'd rather lay my good bike flat on the ground where I know it can't fall.
Oil is good, grease is better.
2007 Peter Mooney w/S&S couplers/Terry Butterfly
1993 Bridgestone MB-3/Avocet O2 Air 40W
1980 Columbus Frame with 1970 Campy parts
1954 Raleigh 3-speed/Brooks B72