Valentine's Day/Romantic Ideas?

[Brandi]

I've been married for oh my gosh, almost 19 years. Anyway, things can get a little boring after a while compared to the crush of love types of feelings that you have early on in your relationship. Also, you begin to take your partner for granted.

What I try to do at least annually with my hubby is to declare some very important things:

1. That we will treat each other as we would our best friends.
2. That we will remember that we are lovers and not only best friends.
3. That we will always treat each other with respect and love.

spoke

Well spoken! And I have to declare those things a couple times a year since I work with my husband. I had to remind dh of two of the above just today.
We celebrate it on a whim. But my favorite thing I used to do was make a giant chocolate chip cookie and a homecooked meal. My close friends make love Lasagna every year. They cook it together and share with friends.
Just do something that really says i love you from the heart. Try to do it without money but your creative mind.
My dh and I have been together for 20 years we are celebrating by going to hawaii for it this year. We felt we deserve it after all this time.