Mr. Silver Sends Thanks

[Bikingmomof3]

we are five years from being "empty nesters". As I look toward that, I place value on us having common interests and common friends. I want our paths to converge, not diverge...and I am choosing to follow the path of following my wife's constructive interests.[/I]

What a beautifully written post. My husband and I are 6 years from being empty nesters and have recently started to find hobbies we both enjoy. I completely understand. You and your wife sound very fortunate to have each other.

I hope you will plan on joining the "Silver Family" at the Hilly Hundred in the fall.

The Hilly Hundred! I live in a very flat part of Ohio. Could we just run instead?

[BleeckerSt_Girl]

Right on, Mr. Silver.

[Brandi]

Rock on with your bad self! You and my husband sound a lot alike.

[RoadRaven]

Like Malliotropolis, I didn't actively involve myself in the thread

However, my thoughts do come down heavily on the "no doscrimination on any grounds" part of the thread.

My partner and I are about 6-7 years from beg empty nesters also, and we spend all time we can together. We do not have girls or boys nights out, we do not go off on hunting or fishing or shopping or whatever trips with our mates -leaving one behind.

My greatest joy last year was a two week holiday we took with the kids where I took no work with me and we only spent 1-2 hours apart from each other at any one time (and this was during the bike race part of the holiday).

Although he rarely reads threads here, and does not post and has not joined, he regularly asks "how the girls are" and helps me formulate both my questions and answers at times, or helps me understand what others have written. He is interested in the women here and is particulalrly thrilled and impressed by women in their middle years who have faced demons or summoned courage or made time to do something for themselves...

This forum has also given the males in this house (my partner and our four sons) the perspective that someone who rides for three hours is just as committed as someone who covers the same distance in half the time. That the women who set cycling goals for themselves can be just as elated or just as devastated when their goals are met or just missed as any testosterone-laden elite male rider.

Its a great forum, and its diversity is its strength and all we should ask is that we are all respectful of each other.

[CycleChic06]

Mr Silver, I honestly don't see a problem with you posting here. I think you offer an interesting perpsective and have every right to post here just like the next person. Yes it's a women's forum, but I think you have shown your postings that you are very respectful of that fact. I hope you are not chased off the forum continue to post here!

[Blueberry]

Mr. Silver-

Glad to see we didn't scare you off

I, for one, consider you a valued and welcome member!

Carrie Anne

who is slinking off to polish off a bottle of two buck chuck - we just got trader joe's in NC and I've been partaking...

[Bikingmomof3]

who is slinking off to polish off a bottle of two buck chuck - we just got trader joe's in NC and I've been partaking...

TJs has some of the best items at fantastic prices.

[Blueberry]

TJs has some of the best items at fantastic prices.

Yes, yes they do. This is not good for my productivity - but the desert wine is yummy (2005 muscato for $5.99) and the *ahem* two buck chuck Shiraz ($2.99) ain't bad either....

They really are pretty good on food too...Whole Foods stretches my budget - TJ's doesn't More $$ for bike stuff

/end hijack

[mimitabby]

Just tell me one thing all you wise people, at which age of child do you become empty nesters? when they turn 21...or... when they actually leave home...
I hate to tell you this, but one of my sons has been back once, and the other has been back twice, and he's here now and he's 28!
Don't you be bragging about empty nesting until it's a done deal!

[Geonz]

Now for anybody who doesn't know, the Hilly Hundred takes TWO DAYS. (I didn't do it one year because I didn't know that.) It is *do-able.* Not easy, but *do-able.* (Start early, though. It gets CROWDED. And please, practice going up hills without suddenly bailing!)