Salsa's wedding sounds like just what you need!
Do what ever kind of cake you want. Just tell the bakery its for a party, you don't have to say "wedding" and get sucked into the wedding cake maelstrom. Order a few cakes of different kinds, so there is something for everyone.
Diamonds freak me out because of the death and murder and child slavery involved. I read somewhere that every diamond and emerald you see has had at least one person die for it by the time you get it. Some jewelers now certify their diamonds, but you have to be careful. Cubic zirconia is cool... and it's not the end of the world if you lose it.
How about ti rings? Appropos for bike riders. www.cascadiadesignstudio.com
You say your sweetie cares a lot about the wedding. What traditions does he want to follow? Can you agree on the ones you will have at your wedding?
Last edited by KnottedYet; 01-06-2007 at 09:37 PM.
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