I know Emily and we've talked about the Damselfly and I was a believer but now I'm ready to switch. (and I'll be looking at the "favorite saddles" postings for ideas). The Damselfly is very hard, but it is one of the narrowest women's saddles around for those of us with narrow sit bones. 20-30 miles is about my limit. Oh, if I could just find the right combo of saddle and cycling shorts, riding would be perfect