Wow! Such wonderful affirmation of your SO's and DH's! I'm not going to justify the ungrateful hubbys...frankly, I'm not a macho dude and don't share their "blame the Mrs." attitude.
BUT, I must confess...Silver has her indulgences, but she tolerates a big one from me:
http://new.photos.yahoo.com/etsterli...803774054902/0
SO, I give and I receive...isn't that what marriage is?