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**mimitabby** · 11-21-2006, 06:59 AM

Originally Posted by kelownagirl

Anyone else think it's a bit odd for someone to join TD and make their first post a baring of their soul regarding a relationship breakdown?

Off to work - hi ho, hi ho. I'm not riding to work today either, Kits. Getting there is easy, coming home is just too much for me after a long day of work. Good on you to ride at all. I am jealous.

yeah, i saw that. not a word about bicycling. I think it's either some confused soul or some guy trolling.

**Trek420** · 11-21-2006, 07:31 AM

mimitabby "I think it's either some confused soul or some guy trolling"

I vote for confused soul. Trolling guys would post about used wet shared bike shorts?

Knott, I agree, I aint never seen a bunch of wymens who can write and think like we does here.

**mimitabby** · 11-21-2006, 07:36 AM

Originally Posted by Trek420

mimitabby "I think it's either some confused soul or some guy trolling"

I vote for confused soul. Trolling guys would post about used wet shared bike shorts?

Knott, I agree, I aint never seen a bunch of wymens who can write and think like we does here.

the trolling part i suggested because twice they said something about after the thrill is gone in a relationship, is it okay to cheat?

**BleeckerSt_Girl** · 11-21-2006, 08:13 AM

Originally Posted by mimitabby

the trolling part i suggested because twice they said something about after the thrill is gone in a relationship, is it okay to cheat?

Yep, I think we all are suspicious of Sad Ranger. The newest stealth troll technique is to post a few things that elicit sympathy and motherly reactions, then slowly to start introducing bodilyfunction/sex issues. Her intro was very cursory and no real bike info to speak of. I don't think she is much interested in biking.

**kelownagirl** · 11-21-2006, 06:22 PM

Originally Posted by Lisa S.H.

Yep, I think we all are suspicious of Sad Ranger. The newest stealth troll technique is to post a few things that elicit sympathy and motherly reactions, then slowly to start introducing bodilyfunction/sex issues. Her intro was very cursory and no real bike info to speak of. I don't think she is much interested in biking.

Well I do want to give her the benefit of the doubt. I am just curious about anyone who starts off the way she did. I was a little suspicious when she mentioned having affairs and I thought her intro was totally different from her other post (***kicker, no photo, no town/state/prov. - unless there really is a Sunny Island)

**chickwhorips** · 11-21-2006, 08:13 AM

Originally Posted by Xrayted

T I - Double G-ER!

update on me: the hard time for lise and mimi that missed it was i broke up with my bf because of certain circumstances. i even went as far to move all my stuff out. well long story short, i moved back in after we talked a lot. things are on shakey ground now, but we'll see where this path leads us. only time will tell. i am still having a rough time with everything, but after having "me time" last night and sitting quietly and thinking about everything i feel like i have made the correct decision. still its hard. its my first "real" relationship where i've loved with my heart and not my mind.

now enough about me (considering it isn't to happy) what about this newbie that's laying her heart out? why do i always miss everything?

**BleeckerSt_Girl** · 11-21-2006, 08:18 AM

CWR, I'm so glad you are able to try to work through this difficult time with your bf. Relationships can be hard to keep healthy and growing. Takes a lot of work. Even if it doesn't work out in the end, the work you are putting into it now will make you a better, stronger, wiser, more loving and more resilient person. Good going, friend!

**Xrayted** · 11-21-2006, 08:23 AM

Originally Posted by Lisa S.H.

Her intro was very cursory and no real bike info to speak of. I don't think she is much interested in biking.

Now who wouldn't be interested in biking? The idea of it...

Originally Posted by Lisa S.H.

CWR, I'm so glad you are able to try to work through this difficult time with your bf. Relationships can be hard to keep healthy and growing. Takes a lot of work. Even if it doesn't work out in the end, the work you are putting into it now will make you a better, stronger, wiser, more loving and more resilient person. Good going, friend!

Very well said.

**chickwhorips** · 11-21-2006, 08:19 AM

oh and kit, i'm working on that. i lost my cc somewhere between anchorage and here. really need to find it, seeing i have no cash. cash? what's cash?

**mimitabby** · 11-21-2006, 08:20 AM

Originally Posted by chickwhorips

T I - Double G-ER!

update on me: the hard time for lise and mimi that missed it was i broke up with my bf because of certain circumstances. i even went as far to move all my stuff out. well long story short, i moved back in after we talked a lot. things are on shakey ground now, but we'll see where this path leads us. only time will tell. i am still having a rough time with everything, but after having "me time" last night and sitting quietly and thinking about everything i feel like i have made the correct decision. still its hard. its my first "real" relationship where i've loved with my heart and not my mind.

now enough about me (considering it isn't to happy) what about this newbie that's laying her heart out? why do i always miss everything?

well, remember, a relationship only works if both people are really committed.
Just because you love with all your heart and mind doesn't mean the other person will do that. the cardinal rule: screw me once shame on you.
screw me twice, shame on me.
PS Just reallized i gave unasked for advice. I'm sorry, the mother in me just pops in all the time!

and about sad ranger, just do a search on that person's posts. they are still available for you to read.

**chickwhorips** · 11-21-2006, 08:37 AM

Originally Posted by mimitabby

well, remember, a relationship only works if both people are really committed.
Just because you love with all your heart and mind doesn't mean the other person will do that. the cardinal rule: screw me once shame on you.
screw me twice, shame on me.
PS Just reallized i gave unasked for advice. I'm sorry, the mother in me just pops in all the time!

yes i know this and this is what i need to figure out. if i'm the only one in it or not.
i believe in those rules too. and the advice was fine. i need someone to give me motherly advice now and again, thankfully here i get the sisterly advice that i need too.

Originally Posted by mimitabby

and about sad ranger, just do a search on that person's posts. they are still available for you to read.

after lisa mentioned her name i looked it up. interesting. thats about all i can say. at least i posted a few times before i brought mine up.

and i didn't start a whole thread on it....

**mimitabby** · 11-21-2006, 08:40 AM

Originally Posted by chickwhorips

after lisa mentioned her name i looked it up. interesting. thats about all i can say. at least i posted a few times before i brought mine up.

and i didn't start a whole thread on it....

and you didn't make your name reflect your problem of the day!

**snapdragen** · 11-21-2006, 08:40 AM

Some people react to pain in different ways. I always give new posters the benefit of the doubt.

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