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So I think i'll calm down by going out into the garden. Big mistake - we have a neighbour who demanded we cut down a tree - we live in a new suburb so this is a big deal - we dont have many trees. He threatened to kill me... yes my husband was there and he can confirm that that's exactly what he said, because this guy doesnt believe "women should speak". Well because we have pets and they're home all day and we're not, i said to hubby we'll cut it down otherwise he'll poison our dog (i've seen him beat the living daylights out of another dog in the street, so i wouldnt put it past him).

So i get past losing the biggest tree in our garden for no reason, and while i'm angry about the tradesman i go outside for some calming nature - and to see why one of our other trees is not getting leaves. I noticed it as i drove out the other day (yes and i havent been able to ride all week because of appts and coming home for tradesmen ). Guess what? The tree is dead, as is the wisteria beside it. These plants were perfectly healthy up until a month or so ago. The wisteria had already bloomed.

I am so fed up. Why do crappy people get away with this type of behaviour. Neighbour has just left in his car, and i am so tempted to go and tip a pile of weed killer all over his garden, but i know i wont because i believe in karma and i believe you reap what you sow. So i just wont do it.

But i'm mad as hell and i want these selfish crappy people to get their just desserts. When will it happen

I sick of being teary and fed up. I try to be a good person who does the right thing and lately all i'm getting is crap (sorry about the language) in return.

God i'm sick of this. I just want to see someone who treats people badly get what they deserve. Is that so bad?
So you DID cut down your tree? I am so sorry to hear that! YOu can't turn that guy in to the police for threatening you?

I wish I could tell you that bad people get their just desserts... Because i am not sure they do...

I have been going through some garbage with my own sister today and she sounds like your coworker. I thought everything was okay again and she's just turned the page and wants to quibble and pick on MORE stuff.

Hang in there and don't let those people get you down!