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  1. #1
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    Sep 2005
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    Trondheim, Norway
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    I just want to thank TE friends for all their support. This morning, as I struggle to find words to write to Kathy's husband and in-laws, it's a double comfort to turn to the words from TE "strangers" and note that it's not so much the words themselves that matter as the knowledge that there are true feelings of support behind them. The support does help, and just now knowing that the support helps no matter how its worded helps too.
    Half-marathon over. Sabbatical year over. It's back to "sacking shirt and oat cakes" as they say here.

  2. #2
    Join Date
    May 2005
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    I'm in tears, too. I am so sorry about this tragic loss. Seems there's no such thing as a stranger anymore.

  3. #3
    Join Date
    May 2006
    Location
    Downunder
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    so awful, so awful. it makes me so sad when we lose a fellow cyclist.

    so sorry for your loss for those of you who knew her
    To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived — This is to have succeeded - Emerson

  4. #4
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    Nov 2006
    Location
    Western Massachusetts
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    Sending my sympathies for this tragic loss.

  5. #5
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    Jun 2004
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    Sonoma County, CA
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    I rode through the intersection this afternoon. There are so many flowers you can barely see the ghost bike that was put up.
    "Bicycling is a big part of the future. It has to be. There's something wrong with a society that drives a car to workout in a gym." -- Bill Nye

  6. #6
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    Deanna "I rode through the intersection this afternoon. There are so many flowers you can barely see the ghost bike that was put up"

    that's very heartening to see people pull together, Kathy was a very special woman. I will try to hold onto the memory of the last time I saw them, that was on the Amgen the first day and time trial.

    Spazzdog and I had walked up to the end of the stage near Coit Tower when I heard a familiar voice yell "Hey Cuz!!" It was Maury and Kathy.

    They'd ridden into the city (not from Santa Rosa though I would not put that past them) and were there with their bikes. She was beaming, they looked so happy together.

    I remember that and many other times.
    Fancy Schmancy Custom Road bike ~ Mondonico Futura Legero
    Found on side of the road bike ~ Motobecane Mixte
    Gravel bike ~ Salsa Vaya
    Favorite bike ~ Soma Buena Vista mixte
    Folder ~ Brompton
    N+1 ~ My seat on the Rover recumbent tandem
    https://www.instagram.com/pugsley_adventuredog/

  7. #7
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    Jul 2006
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    Looking at all the love there that's sleeping
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    Wow. Always tragic, and doubly so when it hits so close to home.
    My condolences to you and your family.

  8. #8
    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Location
    Riding my Luna & Rivendell in the Hudson Valley, NY
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    So terribly terribly sad. And such insensitive moronic responses from some of those people.

    We all know how dangerous it can be out there in traffic. The more we know about preventative maneuvers, the safer we will be. All of us should take a moment to read this page with reminders on avoiding getting hit:
    http://bicyclesafe.com/
    We should read as much as we can about traffic/bike safety strategies.
    My own method is to get right in the middle of the lane at an intersection if I am going to go straight- I "take the lane".
    If I'm going to turn right, I hug the right side and let the car next to me go a bit ahead of me to see what they do. If I'm going to turn left, I hug the left side of the lane and watch for any straight oncoming driver. If I'm going straight, I get right in the middle as though I was a car, rather than waiting next to a car in the lane. Of course every traffic situation is slightly different and may call for varied tactics. The more avoidence and safety strategies we have in our minds the better.
    Perhaps reading one of these safety tips will help prevent another tragedy somehow, somewhere.
    Perhaps in the future a biking safety course could be started in her honor by the hospital where she worked, or in conjunction with the local school.

    I am so appalled at this heartbreaking tragedy to this woman who obviously spent her life caring for others in pain and need. May she be properly honored and remembered by her community.
    (and may that journalist be assigned to get some sensitivity training and put in some community service time at the local ER).

    My heartfelt condolences and sympathy to her family.
    Lisa
    My mountain dulcimer network...FOTMD.com...and my mountain dulcimer blog
    My personal blog:My blog
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