Thanks all of you for your words of encouragement. I will definately check out Ned's book and video. My DH is all for helping me work on my "skill" (or lack thereof) - he is definately the one with the "freakish natural talent" while I on the otherhand, have "freakish natural klutz" syndrome.

I'm not going to give up... yet... I don't like quitting. But geezzz, I hope my confidence builds soon. We are going out again this weekend..... fingers crossed.