I've always found that if you have the right saddle, it doesn't take much breaking in. I've been riding on Terry Butterflies for the last few years and first time on, feel OK. Once the saddle gets worn in, feel great.

There are such things as men and women saddles. The Pilot, unless a WSD bike, no doubt came with a generic, man's saddle. Also don't get one too wide. don't know why people think wider is better. It might be if you go 5 miles, along a trail, real slow but not if you plan on doing any long distance riding.

I'm not saying the Terry will work for you, it does work for me. This is a very personal thing. If you have access to other bikes (like through a club) ask the owners if you can try out their saddles. Like a good pair of shoes, you will know when you found the right one!