Should I take a hint?

[CyclChyk]

You said that they'll drop off and help you bridge up if you're dropped? I can't imagine them doing that if you weren't welcome, especially since it is not a no-drop ride. I would take that as an obvious sign that they want you to hang on.

I agree with Pedal. Is there a chance that maybe since you feel this "vibe" that you intensify it with your insecurities about riding with them?? Maybe some of it is just in your head. I'm not saying that's the case; its just a different view point....

[bluerider]

I agree with Pedal. Is there a chance that maybe since you feel this "vibe" that you intensify it with your insecurities about riding with them?? Maybe some of it is just in your head. I'm not saying that's the case; its just a different view point....

I think you may be onto something...I know they haven't intentionally tried to drop me or make me suffer (although at times, I am very close to passing out). I just need to keep at it and show them that I am getting better and eventually be able to pull them...

But you're right, I am VERY insecure about riding with them. I know I'm not as fast. It's my first year with this club and I know there is a lot of history with the guys so I shouldn't expect to be welcomed right away...

Thanks for making me sit back and look at it with more rationale...

[BleeckerSt_Girl]

I agree with Pedal. Is there a chance that maybe since you feel this "vibe" that you intensify it with your insecurities about riding with them?? Maybe some of it is just in your head. I'm not saying that's the case; its just a different view point....

I remember when lived where everyone spoke Spanish around me- I would stand in line in the supermarket and be absolutely certain the women in back of me were whispering unkind things about me. Then I learned Spanish and it turns out they were just whispering about which tampons they liked, their gall bladder problem, or what color hair dye hides grey the best, etc.

[CyclChyk]

I remember when lived where everyone spoke Spanish around me- I would stand in line in the supermarket and be absolutely certain the women in back of me were whispering unkind things about me. Then I learned Spanish and it turns out they were just whispering about which tampons they liked, their gall bladder problem, or what color hair dye hides grey the best, etc.

OMG! I am SOOO paranoid that eveyone I can't understand or hear is talking about me. After all, I am so "coollllll" how could they not???

Yeh.. I'm sure the reality of it is that they are talking femine hygiene....