Having babies

[margo49]

Main advice about children: It is *biology*; so make sure the other half is going to maximise your genetic potential. Every sentient female biological entity on the planet goes for the male that looks the best of the herd, flock, bunch.

Don't get too far ahead of yourself. Wait and listen.
All the time we women are changing and developing new interests and deepening existing ones and adjusting the balances and prolortions.In pregnancy ditto but squared!
As you progress in the pregnancy and give birth (safely and in good time) and in the following years (till you die, basically); you will find your body and mind and heart will tell you what and how much you want to do with your child(ren). What choices, sacrifices and compromises you will make you will make in Real Time, hopefully in consultation with Baby's father.

You may find yourself surprised how it all turns out (I did). In a good way.
Health and happiness to you in this Adventure of adventures