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  1. #1
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Location
    Victoria BC
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    Thanks againe everyone for your good wishes and stories of encouragement. I really appreciate them!
    As of tonight, things are kind of weird. 'Mom' seems to have quite a bit of movement in her leg, and even the glimmerings of movement in her arm. BUT, she seems to be slipping cognitively. She didn't recognize me or know where she is, and she's sleeping virtually all the time now.
    Talked with her doc; he says now it's just a matter of wait-and-see. Things will either improve, or they won't. The waiting is the hardest.
    I know I should take some "me" time....go riding, or even a walk on the beach. Just can't summon up the energy to do it. Maybe next week...


    Thanks.

    ~Sherry and family.
    All vintage, all the time.
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  2. #2
    Join Date
    Aug 2005
    Location
    Florida panhandle
    Posts
    1,498
    Ditto what everyone else said, and you just do whatever you can to care for yourself as well as mil and DH. It doesn't have to be cycling, though if you ever can work up the energy for a ride, you may find that it does wonders for your outlook. DH and I have been primary caregivers for both my mom and my dad, at different times, and we found that you have to work just as hard at finding ways to "decompress" yourself as at caregiving. Don't forget to take care of you.

    Hoping for a speedy recovery for your mil, and hugs to you.
    Bad JuJu: Team TE Bianchista
    "The road to hell is paved with works-in-progress." -Roth
    Read my blog: Works in Progress

 

 

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