I recently cut my hair from below shoulder length to a VERY short, but very feminine cut. I always had short hair in high school, but that was mainly because I was a terribly huge tom-boy! Now, I cut it short for a change and because I always liked it that way. Anywho...when my friends saw me, they all loved it, one even told me, "We've decided that you are not allowed to have long hair ever again." When I went in for a "trim", I accidently made the decision to do a different type of cut...more pixie like. I don't like it and am trying to get it back to the first cut (a bit of growing time involved). The moral of the story is...hair grows back! Great thing, eh? Which means, try out a few cuts, see what you like...same with the color. You can always change it!