Weepy

[bcipam]

As mature as I am and as many relationships and friendships I've have lost, break ups are still so hard to get through. I know there is nothing I can say to help you other than I hope time will heal. I've been dealing with my own lost of a friendship. It's basically been over for a year but it still hurts to think about it. Just I know everyday it's alittle easier (not much I grant you that but I can see someday I will be over the jerk... um I mean "friend").

Try to do things you enjoy and will take your friend off your loss. I know for me, late nights, when I try to sleep are the worse. I've been trying to get through it by having a good book nearby. Once my thoughts drift to him I pull out the book and start reading. My mind calms down and I can sleep.

Anyway hang that. We can try and get through this together.

[mimitabby]

Indysteel,
I'm sorry you're suffering. Heck i'm weepy because I won't see my DH for 2 weeks. Is that pathetic or what?
he's going to be bicycling in the Phoenix area and i'm going to Italy. and I feel so lonesome because he's far away.

I hope you can fill your time with some fun distractions. that helps.

[Kimmyt]

It does take some time to get out of the weepy stage. I still remember when I had broken up with a very serious longterm guy. I hated being single.

After awhile though, I loved it. There was a lot there to make it enjoyable. Give yourself some time. Of course you're going to long for some parts of coupledom, but after a while you will start realizing the joy in being single, and there's alot of that!

Having learned to fully love my singleness, I finally met a guy and had a really hard time adjusting to coupleness too, so it works both ways!

[Thistle]

((((( Indy )))))

[pooks]

Indy, go to yoga, by all means.

And I do believe this calls for chocolate.

[CyclChyk]

Time can be our geatest friend or our worst enemy. It's passes slow when you are watching the clock (The worst enemy part. The pain part). But when it does pass, you find yourself in a better, stronger, smarter place (the great friend part).

Now..... go get a bottle of chianti and some chocolate covered strawberries and veg out while watching How To Lose a Guy in 10 Days..... yoga will still be there tomorrow.

(please do this. Let me live this vicariously thru you. I really want the chianti and chocolate covered strawberries..... while watching Matt )

{{{{Indy}}}}

[Bikingmomof3]

(((((((((((indy))))))))))))))))